We are all doing the best we can with what, where and who we are at each sage of our lives. If you could have handled a situation better in the past then find the lesson and add it to your bag of “life tools” that you can take with you and bring into the future. This way when or if you should ever find yourself in a similar situation you now have more wisdom and knowledge then you did before on how to deal with it better.This is how we learn and grow. Anything before today is in the past .. Holding onto it or beating yourself up about what you could have done different or better is keeping you stuck and spinning in the past. Let it go, take the lesson and keeping moving forward on your journey of life.